Pre-Marital Sex
- By Sailesh Teeluck (guest)
- Published 10th September, 2008
It seems that a psychological barrier has been broken since the so controversial "The Show" case in Mauritius, depicting a young college girl enjoying sex with more than 3 partners at the same time. These clips were in the hands of almost everybody either in their mobiles or in CDs which was readily available in the streets of Port Louis. This event was a sign that women here are growing more independent and becoming more aware of their body and thus, knowing well what they want physiologically and not only emotionally.
The media explosion has also thrown open, the minds of a once conservative society. Internet and SMS have only abetted pre-marital sex.
Although there has been a shocking change in the perception of pre-marital sex among the young generation, yet there are many who would raise an eyebrow or still blush talking about the issue.
Though the talk of morality would sound rubbish to those who maintain views as "like all other organs, sexual organs have their own functions and preventing them from doing its function, is injustice to the body system and very anti-natural" or "it is non-sensical and immature to judge one's moral attributes through sexual status", the truth is very different. Though men may indulge in pre-marital sex, but when it comes to tying the sacred-knot, 'Virginity' is the key-requirement.
So, if a man chooses to indulge in any such relationship, pre-marital or extra-marital, it becomes a privilege, nothing much is done to label him an outcast and treat him accordingly. But if a female dares to listen to her physiological needs, she becomes a culprit in the eyes of the so-called 'caretakers' of the society and its norms that are meant to facilitate masculine pleasures.
In this society where double standards are supreme, and any decision taken without the consent of the egoist male section will definitely bring in its wake opposition, prior to any future revolution. So, it ultimately remains a rebellious thought that needs sheer determination and strength to endure, to be triumphant in the end.
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6 Responses to "Pre-Marital Sex" 
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said this on 10 Sep 2008 9:40:54 PM MUT
Mons. Teeluck: Quand ou acheter ene l'auto, ou bisin "test-Drive" guetter si li bon ou non. Pre-marital sex la, marche pareil, attention ou beze are borne. Ou cause "double standard", li faux. Si ene femme envi connais si so mari pe casse paquet ailleurs, enan "Lie detector Test". Ou connais astere avec technologie, femme capave vinne jeune fille encore, ti mama li soude zaffaire la. Alors lie detector test applique dans tous les deux cas. MAIS la religion condamne categoriquement pre-marital sex. Si la pas bon ou divorcer, ou prend L'autre.
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said this on 11 Sep 2008 1:12:29 PM MUT
Yes, I agree with you. It's true that a man can indulge in pre-marital sex but when it comes to marriage, he'll prefer to have a virgin in bed...Then why the hell does he not think twice before breaking the virginity of a girl and leave her heartbroken later? You find this fair?????????
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said this on 12 Sep 2008 5:11:44 AM MUT
Shewta, ces Ki bon pour un H li pas toujours bon pour un F.
Alors mo pas croire ki seulment H ki en tors ou ces li ki toujours oule indulge in pre marital sex. Mo d'acccord ena beaucoup Prem Chopra amis ena aussi beaucoup Bindu. Moi kan mo faim mo mange et mo fer manger. |
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said this on 11 Sep 2008 5:12:40 PM MUT
Shweta: Is it fair for the man who is not happy with the woman he is with to stay in this kind of relationship? Although most men try to save an existing marriage while they have extra-marital affair or they stay in the relationship for the sake of honour. Either you divorce or have extra-marital affair, whichever way, you will always be heartbroken, it works both ways. As far as virginity is concerned, it's no longer an issue as this could be fixed anytime. So a man could be fooled too, that's why a lie detector test can give us the peace of mind. Religion teaches us that if you are not happy, be it physical,emotional, etc., get out of it and God will take care of the rest.
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said this on 12 Sep 2008 8:25:34 AM MUT
As the societal behaviour is changing in Mauritius, it has affected the mindsets of our younger generation and especially females. .....watz the hell y only female wt abt the male..are they angels! Discrimination...
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